i wish my cat would cover up when she takes a shit

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no, it’s not ok when he talks to you like that

no, it’s not ok when he embarrasses you like that

no, it’s not ok when he controls you like that

no, it’s not ok when he touches you like that

no, it’s not ok when her hits you like that

love is not supposed to hurt

National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1−(800)−799−7233 

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i’m tired. i literally just came home. all i want to do is relax

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wild hair , going to hang night at Heath gallery

I watch love and hip hop Hollywood while I work out
So I don’t feel like shit for wasting my brain away

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Your answer to number 82: glory

Asked by spnthrrr


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Asked by Anonymous

69. Ever take dance lessons?
yea, mama had me in tap, jazz and ballet until she wised up and put my tomboy ass in soccer

72. Ever won a spelling bee?


73. Have you ever cried because you were so happy?
a lot now a days :)

76. Regularly burn incense?

only after i burn…..nevermind

78. Who would you like to see in concert?


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i have extreme respect for everything you're talking about tonight and i hope that if you're touching on abuse for one person in particular, they get help

Asked by godlegos

thank you

and i hope so too

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80-83 and 89

Asked by Anonymous

80. Hot tea or cold tea?

neither, i hate tea. and my jamaican mama is ashamed of me because of that
81. Tea or coffee?

neither. i’m not cool at all
82. Favorite type of cookie?

there is only one cookie that is worth being called a cookie:

83. Can you swim well?

yup. in high school i was on the varsity swim team. i wasn’t the fastest, but i was clean with the turns and could hold my breath very long

89. Which are better black or green olives?

ew. neither

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63 64

Asked by Anonymous

63. First concert?

Kanye West, Glow in the Dark Tour, in Chicago, after his mom passed. i cried a lot that night. and i also got my life
64. Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart?


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Asked by Anonymous

40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed?

because i love him with all the love i have to give and sometimes kisses say more than words can

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Asked by Anonymous

36. Do you know where the last person you kissed is?

in the gym, gettin sexy for my visit back to NY tomorrow :)

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Reblog again & again

& again

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if i wasn’t going to be an attorney, i’d be a social worker like my mom

and if not that, a chef and owner of my own restaurant, because my mom is an amazing cook and she cooks to show her love

i could not have an occupation that didn’t put some love back into this wretched world

and yes, i do believe being a lawyer in the criminal justice system will be adding love into this world in my future

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one of my friends has had a series of bad relationships

so she had lunch with us to talk about how this new guy is treating her well and she doesn’t know how to deal with it

one of my friends brushed her off and said “it’s all in your head”

i had to immediately correct her. because just because you have issues in your head, doesn’t mean they are any less real. to assume that a person needs to operate like the past is the past, dismisses the trauma of that person’s past

we are all products of our past. events of yesterday shape who we are today. but the mental hurdles we have, they are not to be dismissed. to ignore is not to deal. if it’s her issue to deal with, she should be supported, not mocked or dismissed

a person is allowed to have space. a person is allowed to have time. just because things are great now doesn’t erase how wrong things used to be.

so i talked to her, encouraged her to keep working on her. that it’s ok to not be ready for a relationship, even if “the right” person is right in front of you. and how rushing when you’re not ready does more harm than good

we have to be careful with our advice. not to tell someone how you want them to act, but to meet them where they are and encourage them in a way that helps them.

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