when you a changed man but she not tryna hear it


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For the pimple post: sometimes the cell lining of the pore is damaged, but sometimes it's due to hormonal fluctuations (which sounds like it may be the case if it's linked to your cycle). It could also be touching the same spot, but that's less likely. In terms of getting rid of it, I would try icing it or using an antihistamine and a topical antibiotic like neosporin and continuing to wash your face 2x a day :)

Asked by Anonymous

i’ll try the ice

my skin is always clear

except for the day before, day of and day after my period

then back to normal

thanks nonny

07.23.14 ♥ 4

i would kill for some cinnamon bun pancakes

with extra crispy edges

07.23.14 ♥ 25
Hey!!! I just started a black beauty blog and would love for you to spread the word and follow if you dont mind:)

Asked by theblack-aesthetic


07.23.14 ♥ 1
me when he get ta talkin
and all i’m thinkin about is what his beard would look like wet

me when he get ta talkin

and all i’m thinkin about is what his beard would look like wet

07.23.14 ♥ 9561

i would kill for some salted caramel gelato

07.23.14 ♥ 22



I’m really sick of seeing people defend black women who spew that “all black men hate black women” bullshit. Twitter does not dictate the feelings of all black men. Your limited experience does not dictate the the feelings of all black men.

Talking ‘bout “I care about them but they hate us.”

Stop it. All black men do not hate black women.

Most black men do not hate black women.

Stop spreading this fuckery.

I swear people take ignorant Twitter posts as gospel but will ignore those of who are constantly preaching how much we love black women.

(devil’s advocate)

i suppose if you have 5 black men in your life that are actively supporting black women

and then you go and see 50 different posts on twitter and tumblr a week degrading black women

sometimes, you see the men you know as the exception

and the men in society as the rule

(fully acknowledging that i don’t believe that “all black men hate black women” crap. but i can see where the sentiment comes from)

science side of tumblr

how do you explain me getting that one zit in the same spot every time it’s time for my period

same exact spot

explain it to me, and tell me how to stop the little bastard

07.23.14 ♥ 20



i would kill for some warm chocolate chip cookies right now


na, imma do it

before you ask me an unnecessarily personal question

you should stop, pause

and realize i’m a real person, a human being

and maybe refrain from asking absurdly inappropriate questions

07.23.14 ♥ 15




my mom taught me the therapeutic power of cleaning. open all the windows. throw out the old. wipe down the entire house. burn some incense. roast some coffee. then rest. that way the tears from last night don’t feel as heavy. 

I love it! This is so necessary!!

This is so true. I hated it when I was younger but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned that cleaning is so good for the soul.

07.23.14 ♥ 13927
Why do guys flush condoms down the toilet after sex? Do they think I'm going to "turkey baster" them?

Asked by Anonymous


I’ve never done that before.

Sounds like niggas just don’t trust you.

i’ve told every guy friend i’ve had a close relationship with to make sure they always throw away the condom themselves

Do you have any favorite vegan product brands?

Asked by ms-lavender-rose

no. i don’t really buy “vegan” products

i buy what’s on sale. and because i eat whole foods, not processed foods, i don’t really buy anything with brands

although i do love amy’s soups

07.23.14 ♥ 8
do you know any scriptures in particular to refer to in times of stress and anxiety?

Asked by yayamartin

And which of you by worrying can add a single hour to his span of life?

-Matthew 6:27

Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved.

-Psalm 55:22

Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad.

- Proverbs 12:25

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

- Philippians 4:6

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i would kill for some warm chocolate chip cookies right now

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